The research arm of the Canadian Public Health Agency,
working with Merck, seems to have conquered the Ebola virus.
Friday, July 31, 2015
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Does Television Encourage Irrationalism?
Amusing Ourselves to Death
A book by Neil Postman published in 1987 about the dangers of television
By David Darlington on February 27, 2007
A book by Neil Postman published in 1987 about the dangers of television
Neil Postman was chairman of the
department of communication arts at New
York University .
He passed away in 2003.
An Outstanding Review on
Amazon.com
5 stars -- A classicBy David Darlington on February 27, 2007
Postman's
book is a harsh diatribe against the television industry and its effects on
intellectual discourse in the United
States . Postman argues that television,
especially when compared to the written word, cannot foster deep, rational
thought in its viewers, because it requires absolute passivity from them. Television can only
be about entertainment, and its cultural
dominance, Postman argues, has had negative effects on education, politics, and
religion.
The first half the book dedicated to Postman's updating of the famous Marshall McLuhan postulate, "the medium is the message." Postman agrees, but takes it even further, stating in chapter one that "the medium is the metaphor." What he means by this is that our language -- how we communicate -- is only a metaphor for reality. We describe as best as we can what we see and know, but our method of communication circumscribes how and what we can actually communicate. Postman argues that whichever mode of communication we chose to communicate with -- be it oral, written, or televisual -- each comes with its own set of limitations. That is to say, "the form excludes the content." Some ideas simply can't be expressed by certain forms, which should be obvious to anybody who has tried to write a sarcastic email without the appropriate smiley face at the end.
Postman then guides the reader through a history of communication, laying out eras where oral, print, or visual communicative forms were culturally dominant. For Postman, the print era (or "age of typography"), which he dates roughly from the Reformation to the 19th century, is when rational argument reached its pinnacle. The form of the written word, Postman argues, requires the marshalling of evidence and the presentation of that evidence in a logical order on behalf of the writer, and patience and discernment on the part of the reader. Only in the printed word could complicated truths be clearly and rationally conveyed. During the 19th century, when print had reached hegemony in communications, rational thought was most valued. A striking example that Postman provides is the Lincoln-Douglas debates. While these were certainly public spectacles (usually held at state orcounty faires ),
Postman presents them as if they were dueling long-form essays. In one
particular debate (Peoria, October 16, 1854), Stephen Douglas went first for
three hours, after which Lincoln
suggested everyone go home to have dinner and come back in the evening. They
did, and when they returned they were treated to another four hours of oratory,
starting with Lincoln 's rebuttal of Douglas . This sounds more like a paper session at an
academic conference than a political debate, which is Postman's point exactly.
Lincoln and Douglas did in fact write their speeches out, to make sure they
made sense, though neither man was insensitive to audience response. In this
era -- the era defined by typography as the leading communicative form -- major
public figures, be they politicians, preachers, or activists, were expected to
be able to make a long, rational, public argument, and the people were willing
to listen to it. They weren't bored into a catatonic state by long speeches at
all, Postman says, but rather interacted with the orators to encourage them, or
challenge them to stay on point.
In the modern (television) age, however, things are different. Following the maxim "the form excludes the content," political discourse is no longer about rational argument, says Postman, but about entertainment and appearance. People get bored if television images are too static, so change has to happen, and frequently. There's no time to lay out a rational argument, but no matter, the passive audience doesn't want long, convoluted logic anyway. Television makes its viewers demand constant stimuli, so if things take too long, people just tune out. Debates rarely last even 90 minutes (poor Stephen Douglas), and politicos are lucky to get five minutes on a particular question. Not that they're expected to give a logical answer, anyway. In fact, they can repeat catchphrases as much as they want ("lockbox!" "it's hard work!") as long as they don't look bored (Bush 1992), condescending (Gore 2000), or annoyed (Bush 2004). Who really remembers what was said at the debates in the last presidential campaign anyway? Indeed, did those commenting on the debates immediately following ever really analyze what was being said? In rare cases, such as on PBS, you'd get issue analysis, but for the most part television political commentary was limited to "how did the candidate come across to voters?" "Did he appear honest? Likeable?" Postman says that we're no longer in the Age of Typography, but rather in the Age of Show Business. Television's rules control how we communicate today, even if we aren't on television ourselves.
Take, for example, religion. Postman spends a chapter on religious discourse in the modern era, basically laying into television preachers. Postman (who was Jewish) found some televangelists intelligent, others insulting and emotionally manipulative, but, above everything else, they were all entertainers. There was very little theological depth compared to say, Jonathan Edwards or even Charles Finney. Postman comes to two conclusions about religion on television:
The first is that on television, religion, like everything else, is presented, quite simply and without apology, as an entertainment. Everything that makes religion a historic, profound, and sacred human activity is stripped away; there is no ritual, no dogma, no tradition, no theology, and above all, no sense of spiritual transcendence. On these shows, the preacher is tops. God comes out as a second banana. The second conclusion is that this fact has more to do with the bias of television than with the deficiencies of these electronic preachers...
The point is that in the Age of Show Business, nothing escapes becoming entertainment. Postman reserves special scorn for the way education and news are handled by television. The news chapter is specially informative. Our news programs (even the "serious" news shows), he says, are basically entertainment, because they have music introducing ideas and pretty people ("talking hairdos") telling the stories. News items are stripped from local context, commodified, and given to the viewer in bit-sized chunks, separated by the "now.... this!" phenomenon, which serves to make the viewer dismiss it all as meaningless candy he or she can do nothing about. The "now... this!" phenomenon can be tried on any news broadcast. Tonight, for example, and update on theIraq
will be followed by ("now.... this!") Britney Spears' latest
escapades. Postman says this serves to reduce it all to meaningless trivia.
Amusing Ourselves to Death is definitely a polemic. Postman starts off the book with a comparison of George Orwell's 1984 with Aldous Huxley's Brave New World, stating that the point of his book is exploring the possibility that Huxley's dystopia was correct. Unlike 1984, where people are controlled by violence and pain, Huxley presented a world where people are controlled by giving them every pleasure they want. For Postman, television is the device that controls us by entertainment and pleasure. Is Postman provocative? You bet. But he does raise important questions about our uncritical acceptance of what we see on television, and our easy adoption of any new technology that comes down the pipe. Amusing Ourselves is a book that should be read and discussed by as many people as possible.
The first half the book dedicated to Postman's updating of the famous Marshall McLuhan postulate, "the medium is the message." Postman agrees, but takes it even further, stating in chapter one that "the medium is the metaphor." What he means by this is that our language -- how we communicate -- is only a metaphor for reality. We describe as best as we can what we see and know, but our method of communication circumscribes how and what we can actually communicate. Postman argues that whichever mode of communication we chose to communicate with -- be it oral, written, or televisual -- each comes with its own set of limitations. That is to say, "the form excludes the content." Some ideas simply can't be expressed by certain forms, which should be obvious to anybody who has tried to write a sarcastic email without the appropriate smiley face at the end.
Postman then guides the reader through a history of communication, laying out eras where oral, print, or visual communicative forms were culturally dominant. For Postman, the print era (or "age of typography"), which he dates roughly from the Reformation to the 19th century, is when rational argument reached its pinnacle. The form of the written word, Postman argues, requires the marshalling of evidence and the presentation of that evidence in a logical order on behalf of the writer, and patience and discernment on the part of the reader. Only in the printed word could complicated truths be clearly and rationally conveyed. During the 19th century, when print had reached hegemony in communications, rational thought was most valued. A striking example that Postman provides is the Lincoln-Douglas debates. While these were certainly public spectacles (usually held at state or
In the modern (television) age, however, things are different. Following the maxim "the form excludes the content," political discourse is no longer about rational argument, says Postman, but about entertainment and appearance. People get bored if television images are too static, so change has to happen, and frequently. There's no time to lay out a rational argument, but no matter, the passive audience doesn't want long, convoluted logic anyway. Television makes its viewers demand constant stimuli, so if things take too long, people just tune out. Debates rarely last even 90 minutes (poor Stephen Douglas), and politicos are lucky to get five minutes on a particular question. Not that they're expected to give a logical answer, anyway. In fact, they can repeat catchphrases as much as they want ("lockbox!" "it's hard work!") as long as they don't look bored (Bush 1992), condescending (Gore 2000), or annoyed (Bush 2004). Who really remembers what was said at the debates in the last presidential campaign anyway? Indeed, did those commenting on the debates immediately following ever really analyze what was being said? In rare cases, such as on PBS, you'd get issue analysis, but for the most part television political commentary was limited to "how did the candidate come across to voters?" "Did he appear honest? Likeable?" Postman says that we're no longer in the Age of Typography, but rather in the Age of Show Business. Television's rules control how we communicate today, even if we aren't on television ourselves.
Take, for example, religion. Postman spends a chapter on religious discourse in the modern era, basically laying into television preachers. Postman (who was Jewish) found some televangelists intelligent, others insulting and emotionally manipulative, but, above everything else, they were all entertainers. There was very little theological depth compared to say, Jonathan Edwards or even Charles Finney. Postman comes to two conclusions about religion on television:
The first is that on television, religion, like everything else, is presented, quite simply and without apology, as an entertainment. Everything that makes religion a historic, profound, and sacred human activity is stripped away; there is no ritual, no dogma, no tradition, no theology, and above all, no sense of spiritual transcendence. On these shows, the preacher is tops. God comes out as a second banana. The second conclusion is that this fact has more to do with the bias of television than with the deficiencies of these electronic preachers...
The point is that in the Age of Show Business, nothing escapes becoming entertainment. Postman reserves special scorn for the way education and news are handled by television. The news chapter is specially informative. Our news programs (even the "serious" news shows), he says, are basically entertainment, because they have music introducing ideas and pretty people ("talking hairdos") telling the stories. News items are stripped from local context, commodified, and given to the viewer in bit-sized chunks, separated by the "now.... this!" phenomenon, which serves to make the viewer dismiss it all as meaningless candy he or she can do nothing about. The "now... this!" phenomenon can be tried on any news broadcast. Tonight, for example, and update on the
Amusing Ourselves to Death is definitely a polemic. Postman starts off the book with a comparison of George Orwell's 1984 with Aldous Huxley's Brave New World, stating that the point of his book is exploring the possibility that Huxley's dystopia was correct. Unlike 1984, where people are controlled by violence and pain, Huxley presented a world where people are controlled by giving them every pleasure they want. For Postman, television is the device that controls us by entertainment and pleasure. Is Postman provocative? You bet. But he does raise important questions about our uncritical acceptance of what we see on television, and our easy adoption of any new technology that comes down the pipe. Amusing Ourselves is a book that should be read and discussed by as many people as possible.
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
Model Projects Alloy with Highest Melting Point
Researchers Predict
Material with
Record-Setting Melting Point
Record-Setting Melting Point
Providence, R.I., Brown University, July 27, 2015 -- Using advanced computers and
a computational technique to simulate physical processes at the atomic level,
researchers at Brown University have predicted that a material made from
hafnium, nitrogen, and carbon would have the highest known melting point, about
two-thirds the temperature at the surface of the sun.
The computations, described in the journal Physical Review B (Rapid Communications),
showed that a material made with just the right amounts of hafnium, nitrogen,
and carbon would have a melting point of more than 4,400 kelvins (7,460 degrees
Fahrenheit). That’s about two-thirds the temperature at the surface of the sun,
and 200 kelvins higher than the highest melting point ever recorded
experimentally.
The experimental record-holder is a substance made from
the elements hafnium, tantalum, and carbon (Hf-Ta-C). But these new
calculations suggest that an optimal composition of hafnium, nitrogen, and
carbon — HfN0.38C0.51 — is a promising candidate to set a
new mark. The next step, which the researchers are undertaking now, is to
synthesize material and corroborate the findings in the lab.
“The advantage of starting with the computational approach is we can try
lots of different combinations very cheaply and find ones that might be worth
experimenting with in the lab,” said Axel van de Walle, associate professor of
engineering and co-author of the study with postdoctoral researcher Qijun Hong.
“Otherwise we’d just be shooting in the dark. Now we know we have something
that’s worth a try.”
The researchers used a computational technique that
infers melting points by simulating physical processes at the atomic level,
following the law of quantum mechanics. The technique looks at the dynamics of
melting as they occur at the nanoscale, in blocks of 100 or so atoms. It's more
efficient than traditional methods, but still computationally demanding due to
the large number of potential compounds to test. The work was done using the
National Science Foundation’s XSEDE computer network and Brown’s “Oscar”
high-performance computer cluster.
Van de Walle and Hong started by analyzing the Hf-Ta-C
material for which the melting point had already been experimentally
determined. The simulation was able to elucidate some of the factors that
contribute to the material’s remarkable heat tolerance.
The work showed that Hf-Ta-C combined a high heat of
fusion (the energy released or absorbed when it transitions from solid to
liquid) with a small difference between the entropies (disorder) of the solid
and liquid phases. “What makes something melt is the entropy gained in the
process of phase transformation,” van de Walle explained. “So if the entropy of
the solid is already very high, that tends to stabilize the solid and increase
the melting point.”
The researchers then used those findings to look for
compounds that might maximize those properties. They found that a compound with
hafnium, nitrogen, and carbon would have a similarly high heat of fusion but a
smaller difference between the entropies of the solid and the liquid. When they
calculated the melting point using their computational approach, it came out
200 kelvins higher than the experimental record.
Van de Walle and Hong are now collaborating with
Alexandra Navrotsky’s lab at the University
of California–Davis to
synthesize the compound and perform the melting point experiments. Navrotksy’s
lab is equipped for such high-temperature experiments.
The work could ultimately point toward new
high-performance materials for a variety of uses, from plating for gas turbines
to heat shields on high-speed aircraft. But whether the HfN0.38C0.51
compound itself will be a useful material isn’t clear, van de Walle says.
“Melting point isn’t the only property that’s important
[in material applications],” he said. “You would need to consider things like
mechanical properties and oxidation resistance and all sorts of other
properties. So taking those things into account you may want to mix other
things with this that might lower the melting point. But since you’re already
starting so high, you have more leeway to adjust other properties. So I think
this gives people an idea of what can be done.”
The work also demonstrates the power of this relatively
new computational technique, van de Walle says. In recent years, interest in
using computation to explore the material properties of a large number of
candidate compounds has increased, but much of that work has focused on
properties that are far easier to compute than the melting point.
“Melting point is a really difficult prediction problem
compared to what has been done before,” van de Walle said. “For the modeling
community, I think that’s what is special about this.”
Tuesday, July 28, 2015
Oppositional Defiant Disorder -- Unmasked
Introduction by the Blog
Author
What you can do
Maintaining your health through relaxation, supportive relationships, and effective communication of your concerns and needs are important elements during treatment of ODD.
From here it is easy to posit the real problem and the real
cause. ODD is the normal and un-neurotic response to a parent who intentionally
installs frustration in a child, or who abuses or neglects a child because of
poor parental mental health or substance abuse.
A final word: most modern psychologists ignore these case studies and insist that no children are ever invulnerable.
Below is a long detailed description of Oppositional Defiant
Disorder, which I consider a fake psychological and psychiatric problem for
reasons I explain in my afterword to this longwinded disease discussion.
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Oppositional Defiant
Disorder “ODD,” as described in detail by the Mayo Clinic (ODD is a mental
disorder listed in the DSM nowadays, though such conduct and moods as shown
below used to be considered PERSONALITY TRAITS…
Definition
Even the best-behaved children can be difficult and challenging at times.
But if your child or teen has a frequent and persistent pattern of anger,
irritability, arguing, defiance or vindictiveness toward you and other
authority figures, he or she may have oppositional defiant disorder (ODD).
As a parent, you don't have to go it alone in trying to manage a child with
ODD. Doctors, counselors and child development experts can help.
Treatment of
ODD involves therapy, training to help build positive family interactions and
skills to manage behaviors, and possibly medications to treat related mental
health conditions.
Sometimes it's difficult to recognize the difference between a
strong-willed or emotional child and one with oppositional defiant disorder.
It's normal to exhibit oppositional behavior at certain stages of a child's
development.
Signs of ODD generally begin during preschool years. Sometimes ODD may
develop later, but almost always before the early teen years. These behaviors
cause significant impairment with family, social activities, school and work.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5),
published by the American Psychiatric Association, lists criteria for
diagnosing ODD. This manual is used by mental health providers to diagnose
mental conditions and by insurance companies to reimburse for treatment.
DSM-5 criteria for diagnosis of ODD show a pattern of behavior that:
·
Includes at least four symptoms
from any of these categories — angry and irritable mood; argumentative and
defiant behavior; or vindictiveness
·
Occurs with at least one
individual who is not a sibling
·
Causes significant problems at
work, school or home
·
Occurs on its own, rather than as
part of the course of another mental health problem, such as a substance use
disorder, depression or bipolar disorder
·
Lasts at least six months
DSM-5 criteria for diagnosis of ODD include both emotional and behavioral
symptoms.
Angry and irritable mood:
·
Often loses temper
·
Is often touchy or easily annoyed
by others
·
Is often angry and resentful
Argumentative and defiant behavior:
·
Often argues with adults or
people in authority
·
Often actively defies or refuses
to comply with adults' requests or rules
·
Often deliberately annoys people
·
Often blames others for his or
her mistakes or misbehavior
Vindictiveness:
·
Is often spiteful or vindictive
·
Has shown spiteful or vindictive
behavior at least twice in the past six months
These behaviors must be displayed more often than is typical for your
child's peers. For children younger than 5 years, the behavior must occur on
most days for a period of at least six months. For individuals 5 years or
older, the behavior must occur at least once a week for at least six months.
ODD can vary in severity:
·
Mild. Symptoms occur only in one setting, such
as only at home, school, work or with peers.
·
Moderate. Some symptoms occur in at least two
settings.
·
Severe. Some symptoms occur in three or more
settings.
For some children, symptoms may first be seen only at home, but with time
extend to other settings, such as school and with friends.
When to see a doctor
Your child isn't likely to see his or her behavior as a problem. Instead,
your child will probably believe that unreasonable demands are being placed on
him or her. But if your child has signs and symptoms common to ODD that are
more frequent than is typical for his or her peers, make an appointment with
your child's doctor.
If you're
concerned about your child's behavior or your own ability to parent a
challenging child, seek help from your doctor, a child psychologist or a child
behavioral expert. Your primary care doctor or your child's pediatrician can
refer you to the appropriate professional.
Causes
There's no known clear cause of oppositional defiant disorder. Contributing
causes may be a combination of inherited and environmental factors, including:
·
Genetics — a child's natural disposition or temperament
and possibly neurobiological differences in the way nerves and the brain
function
·
Environment — problems with parenting that
may involve a lack of supervision, inconsistent or harsh discipline, or abuse
or neglect
Risk factors
Oppositional defiant disorder is a complex problem. Possible risk factors
for ODD include:
·
Temperament — a child who has a temperament
that includes difficulty regulating emotions, such as being highly emotionally
reactive to situations or having trouble tolerating frustration
·
Parenting issues — a child who
experiences abuse or neglect, harsh or inconsistent discipline, or a lack of
parental supervision
·
Other family issues — a child who lives with
parent or family discord or has a parent with a mental health or substance use
disorder
Complications
Children with oppositional defiant disorder may have trouble at home with
parents and siblings, in school with teachers, at work with supervisors and
other authority figures, and may struggle to make and keep friends and
relationships.
ODD may lead to problems such as:
·
Poor school and work performance
·
Antisocial behavior
·
Impulse control problems
·
Substance use disorder
·
Suicide
Many children with ODD also have other mental health conditions, such as:
·
Attention-deficit/hyperactivity
disorder (ADHD)
·
Depression
·
Anxiety
·
Conduct disorder
·
Learning and communication
disorders
Treating these
other mental health conditions may help improve ODD symptoms. And it may be
difficult to treat ODD if these other conditions are not evaluated and treated
appropriately.
Preparing for your
appointment
You may start by seeing your child's doctor. After an initial evaluation,
your doctor may refer you to a mental health professional who can help make a
diagnosis and create the appropriate treatment plan for your child.What you can do
Before your appointment, make a list of:
·
Signs and symptoms your child has been experiencing, and for how long.
·
Your family's key personal information, including factors that you suspect may have contributed to changes in your
child's behavior. Include any stressors that your child or close family members
recently experienced, particularly with regard to parental separation or
divorce and differences in expectations and parenting styles.
·
Your child's key medical information, including other physical or mental health conditions with which your child
has been diagnosed.
·
Any medication, vitamins and other supplements your child is taking, including the dose.
·
Questions to ask the doctor so that you can make the most of your appointment.
When possible, both parents should be present with the child. Or, take a
trusted family member or friend along. Someone who accompanies you may remember
something that you missed or forgot.
Questions to ask the doctor at your child's initial appointment include:
·
What do you believe is causing my
child's symptoms?
·
Are there any other possible
causes?
·
How will you determine the
diagnosis?
·
Should my child see a mental
health provider?
Questions to ask if your child is referred to a mental health provider
include:
·
Does my child have oppositional
defiant disorder?
·
Is this condition likely
temporary or long lasting?
·
What factors do you think might
be contributing to my child's problem?
·
What treatment approach do you
recommend?
·
Is it possible for my child to
grow out of this condition?
·
Does my child need to be screened
for any other mental health problems?
·
Is my child at increased risk of
any long-term complications from this condition?
·
Do you recommend any changes at
home or school to encourage my child's recovery?
·
Should I tell my child's teachers
about this diagnosis?
·
What else can my family and I do
to help my child?
·
Do you recommend family therapy?
·
What can we, the parents, do to
cope and sustain our ability to help our child?
Don't hesitate to ask additional questions during your appointment.
What to expect from
your doctor
Be ready to answer your doctor's questions. That way you'll have more time
to go over any points you want to talk about in-depth. Your doctor may ask:
·
What are your concerns about your
child's behavior?
·
When did you first notice these
problems?
·
Have your child's teachers or
other caregivers reported similar behaviors in your child?
·
How often over the last six
months has your child been spiteful or vindictive, or blamed others for his or
her own mistakes?
·
How often over the last six
months has your child been easily annoyed or deliberately annoying to others?
·
How often over the last six
months has your child argued with adults or defied or refused adults' requests?
·
How often over the last six months
has your child been visibly angry or lost his or her temper?
·
In what settings does your child
demonstrate these behaviors?
·
Do any particular situations seem
to trigger negative or defiant behavior in your child?
·
How have you been handling your
child's disruptive behavior?
·
How do you typically discipline
your child?
·
How would you describe your
child's home and family life?
·
What stresses has the family been
dealing with?
·
Has your child been diagnosed
with any other medical conditions, including mental health conditions?
Tests and diagnosis
To determine whether your child has oppositional defiant disorder, the
mental health provider can do a comprehensive psychological evaluation. This
evaluation will likely include an assessment of:
·
Your child's overall health
·
The frequency and intensity of
your child's behaviors
·
Your child's behavior across
multiple settings and relationships
·
The presence of other mental
health, learning or communication disorders
Related mental health
issues
Because ODD
often occurs along with other behavioral or mental health problems, symptoms of
ODD may be difficult to distinguish from those related to other problems. It's
important to diagnose and treat any co-occurring problems because they can
create or worsen ODD symptoms if left untreated.
Treatments and drugs
Treating oppositional defiant disorder generally involves several types of
psychotherapy and training for your child — as well as for parents.
Treatment often lasts several months or longer.
Medications alone generally aren't used for ODD unless another disorder
co-exists. If your child has co-existing conditions, particularly ADHD,
medications may help significantly improve symptoms.
The cornerstones of treatment for ODD usually include:
·
Parent training. A mental health provider with
experience treating ODD may help you develop parenting skills that are more
positive and less frustrating for you and your child. In some cases, your child
may participate in this type of training with you, so that everyone in your
family develops shared goals for how to handle problems.
·
Parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT). During PCIT, therapists coach parents while they interact with their
children. In one approach, the therapist sits behind a one-way mirror and,
using an "ear bug" audio device, guides parents through strategies
that reinforce their children's positive behavior. As a result, parents learn
more-effective parenting techniques, the quality of the parent-child
relationship improves and problem behaviors decrease.
·
Individual and family therapy. Individual
counseling for your child may help him or her learn to manage anger and express
feelings in a healthier way. Family counseling may help improve your
communication and relationships, and help members of your family learn how to
work together.
·
Cognitive problem-solving training. This type of therapy is aimed at helping your child identify and change
thought patterns that lead to behavior problems. Collaborative problem-solving
— in which you and your child work together to come up with solutions that work
for both of you — can help improve ODD-related problems.
·
Social skills training. Your child also
might benefit from therapy that will help him or her learn how to interact more
positively and effectively with peers.
As part of parent training, you may learn how to manage your child's
behavior by:
·
Giving clear instructions and
following through with appropriate consequences when needed
·
Recognizing and praising your
child's good behaviors and positive characteristics to promote desired
behaviors
Although some parenting techniques may seem like common sense, learning to
use them in the face of opposition isn't easy, especially if there are other
stressors at home. Learning these skills will require consistent practice and
patience.
Most important
in treatment is for you to show consistent, unconditional love and acceptance
of your child — even during difficult and disruptive situations. Don't be too
hard on yourself. This process can be tough for even the most patient parents.
Lifestyle and home
remedies
At home, you can begin chipping away at problem behaviors of oppositional
defiant disorder by practicing these strategies:
·
Recognize and praise your child's
positive behaviors. Be as specific as possible, such as, "I really liked
the way you helped pick up your toys tonight."
·
Model the behavior you want your child
to have.
·
Pick your battles and avoid power
struggles. Almost everything can turn into a power struggle, if you let it.
·
Set limits and enforce consistent reasonable
consequences.
·
Set up a routine by developing a consistent daily
schedule for your child. Asking your child to help develop that routine may be
beneficial.
·
Build in time together by developing a
consistent weekly schedule that involves you and your child spending time
together.
·
Work with your partner or others in your
household to ensure consistent and appropriate discipline procedures. Enlist
support from teachers, coaches and other adults who spend time with your child.
·
Assign a household chore that's essential and
that won't get done unless the child does it. Initially, it's important to set
your child up for success with tasks that are relatively easy to achieve and
gradually blend in more important and challenging expectations. Give clear,
easy-to-follow instructions.
·
Be prepared for challenges early on. At first, your child probably won't be cooperative or appreciate your
changed response to his or her behavior. Expect behavior to temporarily worsen
in the face of new expectations. This is called an "extinction burst"
by behavior therapists. Remaining consistent in the face of increasingly
challenging behavior is the key to success at this early stage.
With
perseverance and consistency, the initial hard work often pays off with
improved behavior and relationships.
Coping and support
Being the parent of a child with oppositional defiant disorder isn't easy.
Counseling for you can provide you with an outlet for your frustrations and concerns.
In turn, this can lead to better outcomes for your child because you'll be more
prepared to deal with problem behaviors.Maintaining your health through relaxation, supportive relationships, and effective communication of your concerns and needs are important elements during treatment of ODD.
Prevention
There's no guaranteed way to prevent oppositional defiant disorder.
However, positive parenting and early treatment can help improve behavior and
prevent the situation from getting worse. The earlier that ODD can be managed,
the better.
Treatment can
help restore your child's self-esteem and rebuild a positive relationship
between you and your child. Your child's relationships with other important
adults in his or her life — such as teachers, community supports and care
providers — also will benefit from early treatment.
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Afterword by the Blog Author
How did you like the “Parent-Child Interaction Therapy” with
the one-way mirror and the ear bug so that the parent could receive advice “live”
while manipulating the child? What is
going on here – is the child being trained to be paranoid?
To get to the bottom of this, let’s take another –colder –
look at the “risk factors” for “ODD”:
·
Temperament — a child who has a temperament that includes difficulty
regulating emotions, such as being highly emotionally reactive to situations or
having trouble tolerating frustration
·
Parenting issues — a child who experiences abuse or neglect, harsh or inconsistent discipline, or a lack of parental supervision
·
Other family issues — a child who lives with parent or
family discord or has a parent with a mental health or
substance use disorder
One other thing – it is remotely possible for the child to
win this mindwar outright. A very few
children are given the rare gift of patience at a divine and heroic level. This patience is properly part of the
personality of middle-aged adults, but it can flower into bloom in a child
under stress in unusual situations. The
supremely patient child realizes that angering and annoying the parents is
ineffective and contraindicated. This
wise child is silent when betrayed and left with broken promises. Amazingly, this child will not join in the
hysteria or dramatic scenes of the mentally unstable or addicted parent,
stubbornly remaining calm and uninvolved instead. This, finally, is The Invulnerable Child described by Anthony Cohler and edited by E
James Anthony, M.D. and by Bertram J Cohler in case studies published
in 1987 in book form.
A final word: most modern psychologists ignore these case studies and insist that no children are ever invulnerable.
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